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Who (and what?!) is the purveyor?

My old pal, Mickey, purveys pixie dust world wide!

PUR·VEY·OR : noun– a person or group that spreads or promotes an idea, view, etc, as in “Shannon, Purveyor of Pixie Dust.

PIX·IE DUST : noun – a substance or influence with an apparently magical effect that brings great success or luck.

Ok, here’s the deal. I was going to name this blog 28.4186° N, 81.5811° W, which are the GPS coordinates of the Magic Kingdom at Walt Disney World Resort. So yes, I could have picked something more awkward than Purveyor.

I like words. I don’t always use them well, but I like them. And I like to think that this little blog that chronicles some of my favorite things (mostly how I manage to keep my wits about me, but with some wisdom of my own sprinkled around here and there), like navigating life with joy & wonder or taking off on adventures wherever my feet or passport might take me.

I wear many hats in this whole purveyor business – mom (of 2 smart & sassy girls), wife (of the same good guy for 27+ years), pastor (of a church with amazing members), friend (of people for whom I am so grateful), resident nutty person (thus the semi-sane requirement). I have been known to chase a squirrel mid sentence. Mostly, I enjoy sharing all of this with you to hopefully help you enjoy whatever the day brings. So, stick with me and let’s purvey some pixie dust together!

Comment, question, idea? Contact me at sldill@me.com.

Welcome home.

Why do I love Walt Disney World Resort the way I do?

It’s more than the thrilling attractions, more than the delicious dining, more than the beautiful resort hotels … it’s all of that … and so much more.

Having had one friend stuck there when her flight home was cancelled and another friend who ended up evacuating to there before Hurricane Irma struck, I’m grateful for the Cast Members who went above and beyond to keep them safe and pixie dusted along the way! It’s the “so much more” that makes the difference.

taking the long way

I’m not being judgmental here. I realize that just by making that disclaimer, I’m probably being judgmental at some point. But,

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I was just thinking…

A while back I had the pleasure of running the Savannah Publix Women’s Half Marathon. And by pleasure I mean that it was rough – through no fault of the organizers or the city or the man who single-handedly cheered runners on even though he appeared to have absolutely no clue as to what was going on. In fact, all those folks made the race a resounding success.

What made it rough was the one thing that is beyond anyone’s control. Yes, you guessed it. The weather. The night before the race, I was pretty sure it would be cancelled. And even the morning of, had I not gotten an email from the organizers saying it was in fact still on, I would have easily and without malice or regret, rolled over and gone back to sleep. But alas.

I was ok with a little rain. I mean I had done all my long training runs (um, all two of them) in the rain. I felt completely prepared. But lo and behold, the rain held off and it turned out to be only partly cloudy! But anyone from the south (and I guess other regions?) knows that “rain holding off” and a sliver of sunshine (translate that to mean heat) usually results in the dreaded humidity. And that, my friends can make a race rough, no matter your pace.

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Crawford Square Photo Credit: http://www.savannah.com/crawford-square/

The race was scenic. Savannah is replete with beautiful squares – the intersection of several streets with a bucolic garden in the center surrounded by historic homes.  One of the hallmarks of this race is to run around these squares. And by *around* I mean not through them – you stay on the road. You don’t make friends with the statue, or the fountain, or the big tree that is in the center of the square – you do the miles and run around the square. Unless you are that runner.

Cause if you are that runner, you run through the square. After seeing runner after runner cut the course short, the kind soul next to me, who became my serendipitous running partner, shook her head and rhetorically asked, “Why?”  And we just shook our heads in tandem. Was it hot? Yep. Humid? Like you wouldn’t believe. Did those little short cuts make much of a difference in anyone’s pace or time? Doubtful. But watching runners take the short cut seemed to take the wind out of our sails over and over again.

What made me think of that race and those squares so many months later? I think it has something to do with what we’ve all witnessed lately. It’s this weird juxtaposition of moments when people in leadership shirk their sense of responsibility alongside those moments when people with a fishing boat cross state lines to save strangers in a flood. I guess I’ve just been reminded in the last few days that the long way has the power to make the race worth running.

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Photo Credit: staff photo by Travis Spradling, TheAdvocate.com

We’ve done went and started a glamping giveaway!

glamping giveawayYou won’t believe it, but I’m going to Walt Disney World and I’m glamping it! Here’s the scoop…(and the link to enter the Disney Giveaway is below!)

It’s called glamping, a word for a new kind of travel, defined as glamorous camping. When you’re glamping, there’s no tent to pitch, no sleeping bag to unroll, no fire to build. (Thanks, glamping.com, I couldn’t have said it better myself.)

When several of my favorite and fabulous blogging friends invited me to join them on this glamping adventure, there was no way that I was saying no! In October, we will hitch our wagon to Chip & Dale’s at Disney’s Fort Wilderness Resort & Campground for a fun-filled week at the Walt Disney World Resort and we want you to join in the fun ~ with some prizes and by following along with us!

DISNEY GIVEAWAY CONTENTS

  • $40 Disney Gift Card (who doesn’t want that?!)
  • 2 Mickey Mouse Ear hats (you know, ears are required)
  • A Vera Bradley Mickey Mouse phone case (always in style!)
  • “Disney By the Numbers” – autographed by the author (a little magic goes a long way!)

HOW TO ENTER THE DISNEY PRIZE PACK GIVEAWAY

Its simple, y’all ~

Enter through the Rafflecopter by clicking this link: Glamping Retreat Disney Gift Giveaway!

Now, you all have to promise to follow along in October when we are at Disney’s Fort Wilderness ~ #GlampingBloggerRetreat17 ~ You never know, you just might see some glamping shenanigans (ok, let’s be real, shenanigans are a sure thing!) And . . . there might be more prizes for folks who follow along! It will be an adventure for sure!

AND JUST WHO ARE THESE FABULOUS BLOGGERS?

It’s an awesome group, so be sure to stop by their sites for a visit…

An Open Suitcase

Journeys with Jenn

Lola Lambchops

Sherry Boswell

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Dawns Dorky Diary

My No Guilt Life

Sweet Crazy Life

Fans of Mickey Mouse’s House

My Small World

Let me know if you have any glamping pointers for all of us first timers!

The not-so fine print:

One prize pack will be awarded to one winner. The giveaway is open to residents of the United States age 18 and over. All entries will be verified. The giveaway will run March 4, 2017  to March 17, 2017. Winner will be notified via email and will have 48 hours to claim prize. If prize is not claimed within 48 hours, a new winner will be chosen.

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electing a new president and lessons learned.

In a matter of days our country will have elected a new President. Well, at least that is what is supposed to happen and with this election year, it is difficult to rely on “what is supposed to happen” as a guarantee.

I don’t know about you, but I’m tired. It’s not just this election that has made me weary, it’s the political discourse over the last many years in our country that has made me so. Do we not live in a country that values democracy? At its core, doesn’t that mean that we value the ideal that there are many ways to look at the world and that, ultimately, our goal is to work together despite our differences? I’ve had enough of this at each other’s throats, blame game nonsense and I’d rather see images of our President spontaneously jogging through the White House with his/her dog than making angry faces on TV.

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Here’s your moment of bliss, in this election season.

It seems that many of us are overwhelmed by it all and it is hard to escape. I was intrigued by a recent article in the LA Times. They went to “The Happiest Place on Earth” yes, Disneyland, to see how the election was affecting people. The idea was that
there, people would be a little more optimistic. What they found was interesting – even the happiest place on earth can’t squelch the madness.
A few weeks ago, I posted something on my Facebook page that got a good bit of response, not actually on my page, but in private conversations, texts, emails, messages. Time and again, people wanted to talk about what we can learn from all of this and how we can change ourselves and the world for the better.screen-shot-2016-11-01-at-11-01-40-am

Now while I’m not claiming to be the best at these things, I do think there are some things that we can learn  – and do better at in life. So here you go, just some simple thoughts about what we can learn from this election season…

  1. Learn to apologize – not an “If you were offended by…” or “If I made a mistake…” but a simple, “I’m sorry and I’ll try hard to do better next time.” It’s quite liberating really.
  1. Realize your best intentions may not be how others see it. You know the old saying, “the road to hell is paved with good intentions.” That.
  1. Someone else’s shortcomings are not an excuse for your own. Period. So, let’s put on our big kid pants and move on.
  1. Remember that simple lesson we learned in kindergarten? Wait your turn and don’t interrupt. If you must, stand there jumping up and down with your hand in the air, but please, for the love of Tina Turner, wait your turn.
  1. There are at least two sides to every story, as right as you think your story is. And its corollary, it’s very easy to take a side when you only know one of them. In a nut shell, educating ourselves on things we don’t know about is a good thing. Like the Dos Equis guy says, “stay thirsty* my friends.” *thirsty for knowledge, though a cold beer and good conversation makes for profound learning.
  1. If you can’t take the heat, get out of the kitchen. So, if you are in a debate about something, know your facts (verifiable ones, please). And along those lines,  how about we turn the burner down from boil to a nice simmer. I say we revive the days when people could sit and have civil discourse on, well, civics. Break out the School House Rock videos and make a party of it.
  1. Comparison is the thief of joy. I’ve realized this in parenting, but it is true in all arenas of life. Sure, you can compare apples to oranges, but isn’t it tastier to just make the dang fruit salad and enjoy it?
  1. As tragically humorous as some of this is and all the great punch lines for jokes and SNL skits it generates, this is real stuff that matters because it’s ultimately about people – not just us as individuals, but We the People (you remember that phrase, right?).
  1. Play well with others. In the end, we are all going to have to play well together or we will all be sitting on the bench during recess and that is no fun. [cue the pouty face.]

And perhaps the most important lesson of them all…

  1. If you loved someone before this whole thing started, you should still love them once it is all over. Don’t let your relationships be based on sound bites and Facebook posts (and do us all a favor – don’t let your vote be based on them either).

So, friends, there you have it. I would love to hear what you are learning…

 

 

 

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In my mind’s eye…

Y’all, I get grief from all sorts of people about having my phone with me almost everywhere I go. (Let’s be honest, I do have my limits so not EVERYWHERE, but we will leave it at that!) I love my iPhone. I’ll admit it. I have a sacred attachment to it. And it’s not for the reasons that you may think.  Yes, I like a regular social media fix and it is both a blessing and a curse to be able to check my email any time from anywhere, but that’s not why my iPhone is my trusted companion. I love my iPhone because it has the ability to be my mind’s eye.

Notice something online that I want to remember? Grab a screen shot. See something in a magazine I want to make note of? Snap a photo. That delicious meal that was plated so perfectly? Capture it before I devour it. I’ve read somewhere that iPhones are ruining our ability to remember on our own. That makes me giggle. I don’t need to blame a phone for that, I can take care of that just fine on my own thank you very much.

img_1946It’s more than all of that – and more than the 12,000 pictures I currently have on my phone (yep, you read that right) – though it has everything to do with memories.

Last summer while working to plant trees on a mountainside in Guatemala with AIR Guatemala, the wind began to blow and I was overwhelmed by the sound.  It was as if the trees erupted in magnificent applause. At the last second, I pulled out my phone and immediately hit “video record” without even knowing or caring what video was being captured – I simply yearned to remember the sound.

A child blowing out the candles on her birthday cake just yesterday has become a moment none of us will forget and, not only will we not forget, we can share that moment with others.img_0984

Or when I was out for a run and passed a honeysuckle bush and immediately thought of sitting on the back porch of my grandma’s house.  I knew that I needed to take a picture to keep that treasured memory alive.  I could go on, but I think you get the idea.

img_3954I know, I know. Feel free to roll your eyes. Feel free to remind me that sometimes the memory of something is enough. And I know all too well that a photo or video can’t truly capture the beauty of every moment. But there are times, times when my mind’s eye draws a blank and I remember that I have a back up.

So, if you see me pulling out my phone at times that seem odd or if you wonder what I’m attempting to photograph, just know that there is a moment that I desire to remember and that you just might be a part of it.

 

 

 

What would Dory do?

Another Disney-loving blogger invited me to be a part of A Month of Finding Dory to celebrate the release of Disney’s Finding Dory – so be sure to check out everything from fun activities for your guppies to how to Disney Bound as Dory – right HERE!fdaf489687

Now, I don’t know about you, but Dory is an amazing hero. I mean the girl can’t remember what she is doing from one minute to the next, but she somehow doesn’t stop. She musters up her courage and her posse and she gets it done. Whatever “it” is.  Dory believes in her own courage even when she can’t remember what she is actually up against. This speaks to me.

I want to be that person. The one who can deal with things on my own terms. When things get rough, I want to feel like I have what it takes to handle it. And I want a group of people around me who know all my issues and who cheer me on anyway.  Nothing standing between me Continue reading

The years are short…

So last week I shared with all of you sweet folks some words of encouragement about the days of Pre-K graduation because my Facebook 7811_10151515238697149_1930052226_nand Instagram feeds were blowing up with sweet babies finishing up their preschool days. Well, today it’s all about high school graduation. Those preschool days were long, but the high school years fly by.

For many of us, what happens next goes something like this…

In a blink of an eye, your gangly freshman is about to be dropped off at college – which, as you recall, is full of men with beards and women who you might mistake for moms on the playground – the same people who gave tours to you and your little high school junior and now they are about to share the same classrooms with her. It is frightening.

For those of you who are in this new stage of life, I have some thoughts for you and they are these: Continue reading